P/s: ini entry 18 SX.. if ready n takde nk terasa or hav any bad impressions on me bole bace, if tak sila jangan. TQ
Ok, it is now proper for me to talk of this since da mula ada pengalaman *blush* but this is serious matter. Ramai yg accidentally ter-conceive eventho the couple not yet ready financially, emotionally and physically. So it can cause a tremendous amount of distress to the couple. And this can affect the child too.
So
contraception is strongly advised at ALL times in cases like these.
Like me and Luqman, we are unable to provide for the baby if we were to have one within this 1-1steng year ni cz of the demanding nature of our future jobs (housemen) and also the lack of time and attention the newborn may (or may not get). Also, if i get pregnant and bersalin, nk amik cuti sume.. i will hav to extend me living in the hospital limbo.. blerrgh~
And also my preggy HO frens kate dun mimpi la nk dpt days off (or good hours off) cz so wat u preggers, u be on ur feet 20-22 hours a day and dats it! And of coz tdo 2-3 jam je. Sian weh anak aku cmtu. Dahla zat tak cukup maknye tak sempat makan,xsmpt rest.. mintak simpang..I obviously wanted the best for my (insya-Allah) future child.
Anywho just a word of caution:
Check the labels, JANGAN pakai yg da expired. Latex dier rosak koyak kang.
Then beforehand make sure ur hubby takde allergies to latex (u too) by doing a patch test 12 hour prior and look for signs of gatal2 naik ruam etc.If allergy, try finding a polyurethane one or alternative contraceptives.
Always keep ur condoms in a dry, cool place. Like jgn la ltak dlm keta yang parking tga2 panas terik. Condoms hates heat. Keeping one in ur handbag and ur hubby's wallet seemed a good idea "in case emergency urges crop up"
NEVER:
1) use the same condom twice
2) using petroleum based lubes like vaseline (use water based like KY jelly and Durex' Play series-these are most widely available and affordable too!) cz it will weaken the latex tu.
3) double layering ur condom. Dun thk double layer means more protection, u will cause friction between em and they r prone to tear up.
4) have long figernails wen handling em or using the teeth. like duh~
So step-by-step:
1) make sure ur hubster is FULLY erect. Tear open the packet carefully and if he wants an extra ummpph, u can masukkan ONE drop of lube on the inner side before pakai kan to him.
2) Pinch the teat. This will prevent air collection which can bubble up and cause it to burst open when extra pressure is applied, like an over blown balloon. Also this is the place for the semen to collect later on.
3) Slowly unroll it onto the shaft whilst STILL pinching the hujung. this will ensure a good fit.Roll down to the base of the penis tau.
4) After ejaculation, dun stay in for long. (10 saat ok lagi la) .. just make sure he is still rather hard and ask him to hold the base of the condom while pulling out of u. This is to make sure takde tertumpah inside u. Then slowly take out and wrap in tissue trus buang. JANGAN re-use. If nak sambung lagi satu session, tear open a new piece, ok.
As for choices of ribbed dotted ke ape ke.. i cmpared and honestly i thk MEMANG ADE rase diffrent. Dotted one paaaling intense. Ribbed is one step higher sensations thn the plain ones.
However my hubby say even the Durex extra thick ones pon dun feel as much diffrent as compared to without wearing one. Its the position at the moment that makes the diffrence the most.
So guys, mmg takde alasan tamau pakai okay.. sayangi la isteri kamu.
If malu nk bli kat kedai or amik free kat Klinik Kesihatan Kerajaan (yes, u bole daftar and amik provided ada surat nikah yg sah) ..bole bli online
So stay safe and have fun,ya! Hee~
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