Wednesday, December 8, 2010

How to CORRECTLY Wear the Condom

Posted by kay kamal at 10:41 AM
P/s: ini entry 18 SX.. if ready n takde nk terasa or hav any bad impressions on me bole bace, if tak sila jangan. TQ

Ok, it is now proper for me to talk of this since da mula ada pengalaman *blush* but this is serious matter. Ramai yg accidentally ter-conceive eventho the couple not yet ready financially, emotionally and physically. So it can cause a tremendous amount of distress to the couple. And this can affect the child too. 

So contraception is strongly advised at ALL times in cases like these.

Check out my frens' nye pengalaman.

 Like me and Luqman, we are unable to provide for the baby  if we were to have one within this 1-1steng year ni cz of the demanding nature of our future jobs (housemen) and also the lack of time and attention the newborn may (or may not get). Also, if i get pregnant and bersalin, nk amik cuti sume.. i will hav to extend me living in the hospital limbo.. blerrgh~

And also my preggy HO frens kate dun mimpi la nk dpt days off (or good hours off) cz so wat u preggers, u be on ur feet 20-22 hours a day and dats it! And of coz tdo 2-3 jam je. Sian weh anak aku cmtu. Dahla zat tak cukup maknye tak sempat makan,xsmpt rest.. mintak simpang..I obviously wanted the best for my (insya-Allah) future child.

Anywho just a word of caution:

Check the labels, JANGAN pakai yg da expired. Latex dier rosak koyak kang.

Then beforehand make sure ur hubby takde allergies to latex (u too) by doing a patch test 12 hour prior and look for signs of gatal2 naik ruam etc.If allergy, try finding a polyurethane one or alternative contraceptives.

Always keep ur condoms in a dry, cool place. Like jgn la ltak dlm keta yang parking tga2 panas terik. Condoms hates heat. Keeping one in ur handbag and ur hubby's wallet seemed a good idea "in case emergency urges crop up"

NEVER:

1) use the same condom twice
2) using petroleum based lubes like vaseline (use water based like KY jelly and Durex' Play series-these are most widely available and affordable too!) cz it will weaken the latex tu.
3) double layering ur condom. Dun thk double layer means more protection, u will cause friction between em and they r prone to tear up.
4) have long figernails wen handling em or using the teeth. like duh~

So step-by-step:

1) make sure ur hubster is FULLY erect. Tear open the packet carefully and if he wants an extra ummpph, u can masukkan ONE drop of lube on the inner side before pakai kan to him.


2) Pinch the teat. This will prevent air collection which can bubble up and cause it to burst open when extra pressure is applied, like an over blown balloon. Also this is the place for the semen to collect later on.


3) Slowly unroll it onto the shaft whilst STILL pinching the hujung. this will ensure a good fit.Roll down to the base of the penis tau.


4) After ejaculation, dun stay in for long. (10 saat ok lagi la) .. just make sure he is still rather hard and ask him to hold the base of the condom while pulling out of u. This is to make sure takde tertumpah inside u. Then slowly take out and wrap in tissue trus buang. JANGAN re-use. If nak sambung lagi satu session, tear open a new piece, ok.

As for choices of ribbed dotted ke ape ke.. i cmpared and honestly i thk MEMANG ADE rase diffrent. Dotted one paaaling intense. Ribbed is one step higher sensations thn the plain ones. 

However my hubby say even the Durex extra thick ones pon dun feel as much diffrent as compared to without wearing one. Its the position at the moment that makes the diffrence the most.

So guys, mmg takde alasan tamau pakai okay.. sayangi la isteri kamu. 

If malu nk bli kat kedai or amik free kat Klinik Kesihatan Kerajaan (yes, u bole daftar and amik provided ada surat nikah yg sah) ..bole bli online 


So stay safe and have fun,ya! Hee~

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12 comments:

Queen4ADay on December 8, 2010 at 11:11 AM said...

Good one kay!very comprehensive sharing there ^_^

Xora on December 8, 2010 at 11:57 AM said...

post berani mati! tapi sgt informatif *pipi merah

ElyaElmo on December 8, 2010 at 12:02 PM said...

haha....u dah buat research yee kay!! good good

♥ balkidz_hunny ♥ on December 8, 2010 at 1:19 PM said...

Good job kay! aku segan nak share! ;p
tapi kan, kadang2 bila out-of-control *HAHA* tak sempat nak pakai, so that, make sure ejaculate kat luar laa. boleh je, kite yg nak plan, so kite kena discipline la kan?
Now, im free, tak payah guna condom dah :)
good luck then kay!

Lala on December 8, 2010 at 1:46 PM said...

waa..memang post berani mati. sampai nak komen pun, malu gak. tapi sangat berilmu lah,kay!

Moose on December 8, 2010 at 4:07 PM said...

haha. i like this post. very daring. true, it's not for the prude.but this is knowledge that need to be share.

missbutterfly on December 8, 2010 at 8:09 PM said...

kay.good info.. :)

Raieza Hanim R on December 8, 2010 at 10:21 PM said...

LOL Kay. I think this is totally unnecessary kot?
hahaa

under the sky on December 8, 2010 at 11:18 PM said...

waa....condom=contact lense. memerlukan seni yg tinggi

cik senah on December 9, 2010 at 5:03 PM said...

Syabassss...! Perkongsian yang berani dan bermanfaat buat semua... :)

p.s : Pada chek.. kita semua tak perlu malu bab niee ( ttg kondom atau cara2 lain di dalam hal pengawalan kehamilan ).. kita semua pakat besaq panjang dah kann..? Awat nak malu pulak.. kalau takdak ilmu..kita kena CARI.. betoi dakk..?? :)

Dan.. kalau kita ada ilmu.. kita kena KONGSI.. :p Sekian, selamat beramal... ;)

kay kamal on December 9, 2010 at 9:22 PM said...

malu tu is a part of our society's norm sbb mmg kite tak dibiasakan bncang hal2 cmni in plain daylight.

but my mom is so open w me it is not funny to talk things like this openly w her. in fact, i started talking to her about "stuffs" since i was 13.

and as cik senah ritely sez. mmg kite kne tau and share ape yg tau cz actually RAMAI sgt yg tatau and mmg i saw so many couples yang bermasam2 muka kat hospital cz pregnancy tu unplanned and they are really not ready. laki slhkan isteri vice versa.

and qish, true in the end it is our choice kan. and mmg la ko da preggers ko nk riso ape lagi. lol~

mayb some yg bace akan rase i m a lil too open about it but i hope this post wun menyinggung perasaan sesiapa ya.

till then stay safe! hee~

chemps32 on January 9, 2011 at 12:56 AM said...

good one kay.. i think, i think ppl should be more open. kalau sume malu sape nk bgtau? hehehe...hope to c u someday :)

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